Relationship mistake: making things too easy for him

It is quite obvious that what is common among a woman who is well loved is that she does not make things too easy for the men in her life. Now, I’m not saying they’re witches. The beloved lady only shows that she is not afraid of losing a man, and therefore she usually does not lose him. Have you ever noticed that when you are not interested in a man, showing that you don’t really care that much if he disappears or not, then he goes crazy for you? That’s how he works.

We all want what we can’t have.

I’m not telling you that you have to play hard to get, although it seems that way. You just can’t be available when he wants and you can’t be available to him and cancel any of his calls. your plans for him. Don’t wait for him to call you and just show him interest in things that interest him.

You are a treasure and therefore you need to show that you are of great value. You are of great value, aren’t you? If you value yourself and show it through your actions, the men around you will see it too.

Let’s say you and your date make plans to meet somewhere and he shows up late. You can excuse him the first time this happens. If he’s late next time and doesn’t call to let you know, wait about fifteen minutes. If he makes you wait more than fifteen minutes without a phone call, just walk away. Don’t be there when it arrives. You have other things to do, even if you really don’t. Just make other plans.

Here is another example to follow. If he says he’ll call you the next day and only calls you a few days later, no problem. Don’t say anything about it. However, if he wants to meet you the day he calls you, you can’t go out with him! You have other plans even if you don’t really have them. Don’t ask him why he didn’t call either. He won’t do you any good.

Oh, and here’s another big one. If he wants to see you but wants it to be at your house, in your bed at any time he pleases, FORGET IT! Don’t let this happen. You have to value yourself much more.

Especially at the beginning of a relationship, he should invite you to dinner. Only later, as time passes and the relationship progresses, should he be allowed to go home or visit his home. Don’t think that if he comes you can win him over by cooking him some dinner. No way. In any case, I should be cooking something for you, okay, princess?

I’m not proclaiming that you should never cook her dinner, but don’t make it a habit and it shouldn’t be anything too fancy or she’ll think you’re trying too hard. You don’t have to make an effort. Actually, let him work to be with you. He needs to sweat to have you. Let him be the one in the attack position, and you be the defense and move only according to the moves he makes.

Use common sense.

Do not let yourself be in the position of someone who is always there waiting, desperate without valuing you while the man puts himself in the position of a king, a hot guy who uses and abuses you. Would you like a man who is always available to you, accepting everything you do? Wouldn’t you get tired of him pretty quick? Wouldn’t you think that he is worthless? Actually, we always like the difficult; we like what we have to fight to achieve. He has more value and everything we have to work for has a much sweeter victory when we achieve it.

Instead, everything we get too easily makes us wonder, “hmm, I don’t know if it’s worth it or if I really want it.” If I were a man, I would ask myself, why does this lady accept everything I do? Doesn’t she have any other options out there? She Is she desperate she? What is the problem with her that I haven’t figured out yet? Am I the only loser interested in her?

You may not be desperate, but sometimes you may act that way because you think if you play hard to get, he’ll go for someone else. Well that could be true. But, if you make yourself a little hard to get and he really wants you, he will persist. If he goes after someone else, it’s because he didn’t really love you and just wanted to play. Let him go fishing in another pond. We women have no time to lose.

I want to point out that playing tough or something hard to get doesn’t mean you have to be tough, rude or dry. It means that you will not tolerate being taken for granted. How do you prove this? Don’t let him know with words that you won’t be taken for granted; You show it with your attitudes and the things you do or don’t do. It’s pretty simple. Just think about the things you don’t like to tolerate. Don’t you like it when people are late when making plans? Then don’t accept it. Can’t bear to wait for a phone call? So don’t expect it. You may tell yourself that you don’t mind waiting, but I doubt that’s really true. The point is you can’t let this become a disrespectful habit or sooner or later he’ll make plans with you tonight and show up next week.

Here is an example. If he wants to see you but prefers to do so later after he’s out with his friends, what do you do? If they don’t live in the same household, he can go out with his friends, but after that he sleeps alone! Tell him you’ll see him tomorrow. If he tries to convince you to come later, tell him that it will be late and that you probably have plans with Maria or any other friend’s name, even if you don’t go out. Sure, he can hang out with his friends.

as in its own right. What he can’t do is keep you on hold. No problem. You are a priority and believe it: you deserve to be a priority.

A man really loves this from a woman. He knows that if he lets things happen with you, things could get ugly. You are not the type to yell and complain like many women do. With you, if he messes up, it can be much worse because you take action or retreat.

Who says men like good girls anyway?

They like women with attitude. The good girls are just there to be used and thrown away. Again, being a woman with attitude doesn’t mean you have to be aggressive or cold. No problem. Sweet and soft, but firm. Pretty, but also smart.