When an Aries man is angry – Tips to calm him down and get him to forgive you
When an Aries man is angry, everyone around him usually knows that they need to hide emotionally. Men born under this sign are as honest as they seem. When they get angry, they are not shy about sharing what they feel and tend to be directed at the person who pushed them to feel that way. If you’re a woman dating such a man and you’ve done something to light the fuse for him, you know it can get painful very quickly. What Aries men lack in diplomacy, they more than make up for in passion. When such a man loves you, he is completely. However, at this point you need to face his temper and find a way to calm him down so that you can make him feel close to you again.
Trying to apologize when an Aries man is angry can seem like an exercise in futility. If it’s past the point of listening to reason and it’s gotten to the point where he feels the need to rant, you better let that happen and stay as calm as possible. Men born at this time of year need to be able to vent when they feel wronged. If you take offense at this and start trying to argue your point, it will probably lead to even more conflict and you will end up with a broken heart and bruised ego. This is why you need to listen to him share how he feels and then once he is done you can start the process of making amends.
Start by separating yourself from him for a while. You need him to have a chance to think things through and calm down. This probably can’t happen if you continually try to get him to forgive you. As much as you want to put this episode behind you, to him your constant pleas are just a reminder of why he was upset in the first place. That’s why it’s crucial that you back off at least a few days.
Once you feel that enough time has passed, then apologize sincerely. Explain that you are sorry for what happened and try to do so in a direct and compassionate way. You’ll be inclined to promise not to do it again, and that’s fine, but you’ll have to follow through on showing that you’ve changed.
Although it may take a little while for an Aries man to forgive you when he’s angry, it will happen. He just give him the space he needs and let your actions show him how sorry you are. Remember that giving him the opportunity to vent and calm down are the keys to leaving the mistake behind and moving on.