How to attract girls effortlessly

When guys search for how to attract girls, they often get the same advice each and every time. They are told to ‘be confident’ and to ‘just be themselves’. Well, this is completely useless because they probably already know this. What they don’t know is how to be confident and how to be themselves.

Step 1 – Body Language

The key to being confident is feeling GOOD. Have you ever felt nervous and tense and noticed that your body language changes completely? You will most likely cross your arms or hands, lean forward, and take up less space (standing with your feet together). When women see this, they automatically lose attraction to you.

Now imagine a time when you felt totally comfortable and relaxed. Most likely, your body language was very relaxed and loose. If he was sitting, he was probably lying down with his arms and legs outstretched. Or maybe, if he was in a club, he stood with a confident stance, taking up a lot of space (wider foot stance) and possibly even leaned against a wall holding his drink down (not shoulder height) . Well, when women see this, they automatically assume you’re a cool, confident, high-value guy. All qualities that are very attractive to them as well.

Step 2 – Vocal Projection

Girls are extremely attracted to Alpha Guys. Think of all the ‘leader’ type types you know. The guys that everyone else follows. The guy who seems to make all the decisions. What do all these guys have in common? They have a strong and powerful voice. When they speak, everyone listens. So the next step in attracting girls is to have a strong and powerful voice. This conveys that you are a leader and are used to people respecting and listening to you. So from now on I want you to speak louder. Don’t think about talking to people. Think about speaking THROUGH people. If people tell you that you talk too loud, take it as a compliment and continue talking loudly.

Step 3 – Cocky Fun Attitude

If you have implemented the first 2 steps in your life, you should notice a big difference. You should see that you are getting more attention from girls. So the next step to increase attraction with girls is through your personality. Most guys act totally different towards ‘average looking girls’ than towards ‘beautiful girls’. That’s why most guys complain that the only girls they like are the girls they’re not attracted to. This is also why beautiful girls just wish that guys could act normal and be themselves around them. But instead they act totally different.

To attract a girl you have to take her down from the pedestal you put her on. She is just a girl and girls abound in this world. If you can act playful, cocky and fun with a beautiful girl, her attraction to you will skyrocket.

conclusion

From now on, if you want your life to change completely, I want you to improve your body language, vocal projection and adopt a cocky and fun attitude. This is how 2 attract girls. Not with expensive gifts and flowers. Girls only like this when they are dating and they are already attracted to you. If you buy them gifts or do romantic things for them before this, they’ll think you’re ‘creepy’.